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    Symptoms of Depression in Men

    by Mary Calvagna. From Beliefnet.com.

    Depression—once thought of as a woman's disease—is appearing more frequently in men. Nearly 20
    million Americans suffer from depression each year; over six million of these sufferers are men.

    Male depression may include symptoms not normally thought of as the classic symptoms associated with
    depression. As a result, depression can be difficult to recognize in men, and doctors may be less likely to
    suspect depression as the cause of a man's complaints. In addition, men may not be willing to admit that
    they are feeling depressed.

    Symptoms Associated With Male Depression:

  • Using alcohol or drugs to self medicate
  • Working excessively long hours
  • Watching excessive amounts of television
  • Becoming irritable or angry
  • Becoming violent to himself or others
  • Creating conflict
  • Acting overtly or covertly hostile

    Classic Symptoms of Depression:

  • Persistent sad, anxious, or "empty" mood
  • Feelings of hopelessness, pessimism
  • Feelings of guilt, worthlessness, helplessness
  • Loss of interest or pleasure in hobbies and activities that were once enjoyed, including sex
  • Decreased energy, fatigue, being "slowed down"
  • Difficulty concentrating, remembering, making decisions
  • Insomnia, early-morning awakening, or oversleeping
  • Appetite and/or weight loss, or overeating and weight gain
  • Thoughts of death or suicide; suicide attempts
  • Restlessness, irritability
  • Persistent physical symptoms that do not respond to treatment, such as headaches, digestive
    disorders, and chronic pain

    Two-thirds of people who suffer from depression do not seek help. It is crucial, however, that depression be
    diagnosed and treated—untreated depression has been linked to suicide. Of those who seek treatment,
    80% experience significant improvement and lead productive lives.

    Retrieved January 16, 2006 from http://www.beliefnet.com/healthandhealing/getcontent.aspx?cid=14176

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    Stress Management: Coping with Duality and Dichotomy in Law Enforcement
                                                 
    By Dr. Frank Kardasz, April 8, 2007

    Reflecting sadly upon the 1968 murder of Martin Luther King Jr., Robert F. Kennedy said, "Let us dedicate
    ourselves to what the Greeks wrote so many years ago: to tame the savageness of man and make gentle
    the life of this world." The savageness to which the Greeks referred is part of the duality and dichotomy of the
    human condition. Duality is defined as the quality or character of being twofold.

    Dichotomy is simply the division into two contradictory parts. Humans sometimes experience opposing and
    conflicting character aspects, resulting in dichotomous displays of emotion. Personality and behavioral
    characteristics, tempered by self-control mechanisms, determine whether behavior will be ethical or
    unethical. Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde are fictitious but extreme examples of behavioral duality and dichotomy.

    Regarding the dual instincts of man, Harold S. Kushner, author of "Living a Life that Matters" (p. 49) said:

    So what kind of people are we? Are we naturally good and pure until external circumstances
    compromise our goodness? Or are we naturally weak and deceitful, needing conscience or outside
    authority to keep us in line? My answer is that we are both. I see every human being as having good
    and bad tendencies, impulses to charity and impulses to selfishness, the desire to be truthful and
    the desire to lie.

    Internal psychological struggles occur between human basic instincts. Behavioral pathways towards
    aggression, greed, sexuality, substance abuse, depression and anti-social behavior can be impacted  by
    personal and situational factors, challenging our ability to maintain ethical conduct. Failure to restrain
    actions can lead to dysfunctions in social, family and professional life.

    Duality and dichotomy of conflicting emotions are often apparent in law enforcement situations. Consider for
    example, a fatal drunk-driving accident, where a first responder may experience intense sorrow for the
    mangled innocent victim, and alternating rage towards the uninjured impaired driver who caused the
    accident.

    Challenging situational and social conditions also influence behavior. Proper and ethical behavior is
    controlled by the ability to make logical decisions. Logic-based decision-making tools aid in selecting the
    proper course of conduct.

    Psychologists often describe an emotional "bucket" into which one deposits and accumulates stressful
    personal incidents. Unless effective stress management is practiced, the bucket fills and overflows. When
    the bucket overflows, the individual may react negatively. For example, the emotional bucket may fill when an
    accumulating series of traumatic events occur. Individuals who experience events such as bankruptcy,
    divorce, death of a loved one, and job-related traumatic incidents may reach an emotional overload point.

    The emotional "bucket" can fill quickly and unexpectedly. An officer on a busy shift may witness trauma,
    suffering and injustice several times each day: frustrated by an inability to stop the continuing unfairness, the
    emotional bucket overflows. The accumulated emotional strain may cause the officer to react. Post traumatic
    stress is a condition that can result from emotional overload.

    Law enforcement personnel are expected to adhere to high standards of conduct in accordance with their
    sworn code of ethics. Officers are particularly susceptible to emotional overload.  Cumulative and
    unmanaged stress can contribute to law enforcement misconduct when the individual's internal self-control
    mechanisms deteriorate.

    Stress management is important in maintaining balanced and healthy behavior. Without effective stress
    management for the release of emotional conflict, some form of misconduct may result.

    Ideally, an individual self-evaluates, monitors one's own emotions and participates in activities to release
    and reduce stress. Stress reduction activities may include exercise, proper nutrition, hobbies, family outings,
    fraternal or civic organizations, religion, meditation, and other appropriate techniques. Therapeutic stress-
    reduction activities are preferable to dysfunctional activities such as substance abuse, aggression,
    depression and anti-social acts that tend to result in added stress.

    Evidence of the untamed savageness of man is experienced daily by those who choose law enforcement as
    a career. Field officers witness firsthand the worst that mankind offers. The duality and dichotomy of the frail
    human condition persists, causing stress and psychological impact upon law enforcement employees.
    Understanding and coping with accumulating emotions and managing stress effectively helps towards
    maintaining ethical conduct.

    References
    Kennedy. Robert. F. (1968, April 4). Statement on the assassination of Martin Luther King. Indianapolis,
        Indiana. Retrieved October 20, 2007, from http://www.jfklibrary.org/Historical+Resources/Archives/
                 Reference+Desk/Speeches/RFK/Statement+on+the+Assassination+of+Martin+Luther+King.htm

    Kushner, H. S. (2002). Living a Life that Matters. South Burlington, Vermont.: Anchor.

STRESS MANAGEMENT

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